Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships
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Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

Kate Loree (Author), Carol Jacobanis (Narrator), She Writes Press (Publisher)
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A full one-fifth of the United States has engaged in consensual non-monogamy (CNM) at some point in their lives, and 29 percent of adults under 30 today consider open relationships to be morally acceptable—yet there are few resources to turn to when it comes to navigating this more non-traditional and explorative territory.

Picking up where CNM self-help books like Open Up, The Ethical Slut, and More Than Two leave off, Open Deeply tackles the most difficult challenges posed by CNM. Therapist Kate Loree—who has practiced non-monogamy since 2003, and who specializes in treating clients who also practice non-monogamy—pulls no punches as she uses vignettes based on her own life, as well as her clients’ experiences, to illustrate the highs, lows, and in-betweens of life as a consensual non-monogamist. Interwoven with these stories are thorough explanations of how attachment theory impacts non-monogamy, how blending cutting-edge, neurobiology-informed grounding skills with effective communication skills will make even the most challenging conversations regarding non-monogamy manageable, and more. The result is a compassionate, attachment-focused template for non-monogamy that will allow listeners to avoid pitfalls and find adventure while concurrently building healthy relationships.

Non-monogamy is a wild and woolly ride—and Open Deeply is here to help make it a great one.

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  1. Listening Length
    12 hours and 50 minutes
  2. Author
    Kate Loree
  3. Narrator
    Carol Jacobanis
  4. Audible release date
    April 12, 2022
  5. Language
    English
  6. Publisher
    She Writes Press
  7. ASIN
    B09XPFY3KB
  8. Version
    Unabridged
  9. Program Type
    Audiobook
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Listening Length 12 hours and 50 minutes
Author Kate Loree
Narrator Carol Jacobanis
Whispersync for Voice Ready
Audible.com Release Date April 12, 2022
Publisher She Writes Press
Program Type Audiobook
Version Unabridged
Language English
ASIN B09XPFY3KB
Best Sellers Rank #25,708 in Audible Books & Originals (See Top 100 in Audible Books & Originals)
#13 in Human Sexuality Studies
#84 in Sexual & Reproductive Health
#152 in Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships

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4.8 out of 5 stars
4.8 out of 5
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A must read practical and insightful guide to navigating non traditional relationships
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A must read practical and insightful guide to navigating non traditional relationships
Open Deeply is a pleasure to read and filled with strategies and real examples. I learned so much about how to improve communication within open relationships as well as relationships in all forms. It has become a foundational book that I recommend to all my clients looking for a practical guide on how to navigate non traditional relationships. There is so much insight and compassion here and Kate Loree brings a refreshing and highly knowledgeable voice to the subject. This book is going to help so many people and should be required reading for all those interested in healthy relationships that don't fit into the traditional box.
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Samia Mounts
5.0 out of 5 stars Best book on navigating polyamory out there hands down
Reviewed in the United States on April 16, 2024
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I’ve read literally every book on this subject, and Open Deeply is the most thorough, compassionate, actionable, and helpful book on navigating polyamory out there, period, end of story. No one has figured out how to talk to people who aren’t already enthusiastic about nonmonogamy the way Kate Loree has. My husband and I went through several years of struggle with this, and no book helped us like this one did. I was an experienced poly person when we met, and it was brand new to him. This was the first book that made him feel seen and not denigrated as someone who was struggling, and it was a total game changer for us. I can’t recommend Open Deeply enough, and it’s my new top book recommendation when curious parties ask me for good resources.
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Heather
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read!
Reviewed in the United States on August 14, 2023
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The best book written for relationships whether monogamous or non monogamous. She breaks down things to make better understandings of topics and provides clear perspectives.
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Jordan
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read practical and insightful guide to navigating non traditional relationships
Reviewed in the United States on September 28, 2022
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Open Deeply is a pleasure to read and filled with strategies and real examples. I learned so much about how to improve communication within open relationships as well as relationships in all forms. It has become a foundational book that I recommend to all my clients looking for a practical guide on how to navigate non traditional relationships. There is so much insight and compassion here and Kate Loree brings a refreshing and highly knowledgeable voice to the subject. This book is going to help so many people and should be required reading for all those interested in healthy relationships that don't fit into the traditional box.
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Jordan
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read practical and insightful guide to navigating non traditional relationships
Reviewed in the United States on September 28, 2022
Open Deeply is a pleasure to read and filled with strategies and real examples. I learned so much about how to improve communication within open relationships as well as relationships in all forms. It has become a foundational book that I recommend to all my clients looking for a practical guide on how to navigate non traditional relationships. There is so much insight and compassion here and Kate Loree brings a refreshing and highly knowledgeable voice to the subject. This book is going to help so many people and should be required reading for all those interested in healthy relationships that don't fit into the traditional box.
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Gwyn
5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect book for how to actually DO non-monogamy
Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2022
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Lots of books talk about the whole theory of ethical non-monogamy or polayamory, and those are really important. But this book will walk you through the various ways a real person can really engage in ENM relationships. The author is a therapist who has worked with people who engaged in this, and she has herself. So it's real practical ways to work through many of the things that come up. I would highly recommend reading this before start ing on this path because lots of things come up that can seriously derail your situation. But if you have a clue, like this book will provide, you can avoid unfortunate missteps
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rebe
5.0 out of 5 stars Must read for anyone in an open relationship
Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2022
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I loved every sentence in this book. Kate Loree presents information in a format that is easily accessible, progressive, informative, and thoughtful. This book as been my bible to improving communication and understanding with my partner, and considering how to be thoughtful in relating to each other and planning our next steps. I had the privilege of seeing Kate Loree speak at a retreat and she is a brilliant mind who has so much valuable information to share. Well worth every cent and more!
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Sunny Megatron
5.0 out of 5 stars AMAZING relationship resource for consensually non-monogamous folx!
Reviewed in the United States on April 20, 2022
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If you’re consensually non-monogamous (polyamorous, open, swing lifestyle, etc) this book needs to be in your library. Going well beyond the basics, it’s a practical guide for navigating the messy, tender, imperfect parts of open relationships in their many forms. Things like attachment style, mental health, coping strategies, societal conditioning, and trauma impact non-monogamous partners in unique ways. This book outlines strategies for compassionate communication, self-understanding, breaking unhealthy patterns, and decoding root causes of conflict. No more having to retrofit monogamy-specific relationship insight to polyamorous situations. This is a resource for building & sustaining healthy, fulfilling, sustainable multiple relationships written specifically for us!
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Kalee
5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful guide that gets to the true heart of the matter.
Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2022
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As a somatic sex coach, I highly recommend this thoughtful and thorough book for those wanting to explore non/monogamy. The care and introspection poured into its pages is relatable to the newbie and experienced alike. I will be using this book as a reference both for myself, and a resource for my clients. As the title states, compassion is at the heart of this handbook, as eloquently expressed by Kate Loree.
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Babatunde HipHopera
5.0 out of 5 stars This is actually helpful!
Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2022
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I've already recommended this book to a few friends.This is the first non-monogamy book that I've felt was balanced. Thorough. It does a good job filling in the holes/gaps many of the other books leave.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This is actually helpful!
Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2022
I've already recommended this book to a few friends.This is the first non-monogamy book that I've felt was balanced. Thorough. It does a good job filling in the holes/gaps many of the other books leave.
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mariuxis
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book
Reviewed in Canada on January 28, 2023
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Thank you to the author to teach many of us how to walk this path with out guilty, and shame. Your book is full of compassion and understanding our authentic self. Thank you!
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Steph Pineo
5.0 out of 5 stars Best practical poly book out there
Reviewed in Canada on September 26, 2022
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Not only is the most practical and comprehensive book on conscious open relationships I have ever read, it is also helpful for any* healthy relationship. I highly recommend this book.
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