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It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered Hardcover – November 13, 2018
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New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst unveils her heart amid shattering circumstances and shows readers how to live assured when life doesn't turn out like they expected.
What do you do when God’s timing seems questionable, His lack of intervention hurtful, and His promises doubtful?
Life often looks so very different than we hoped or expected. Some events may simply catch us off guard for a moment, but others shatter us completely. We feel disappointed and disillusioned, and we quietly start to wonder about the reality of God’s goodness.
Lysa TerKeurst understands this deeply. But she's also discovered that our disappointments can be the divine appointments our souls need to radically encounter God. In It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, Lysa invites us into her own journey of faith and, with grit, vulnerability, and honest humor, helps us to:
- Stop being pulled into the anxiety of disappointment by discovering how to better process unmet expectations and other painful situations.
- Train ourselves to recognize the three strategies of the enemy so we can stand strong and persevere through unsettling relationships and uncertain outcomes.
- Discover the secret of being steadfast and not panicking when God actually does give us more than we can handle.
- Shift our suspicion that God is cruel or unfair to the biblical assurance that God is protecting and preparing us.
- Know how to encourage a friend and help her navigate hard realities with real help from God's truth.
- Print length256 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherThomas Nelson
- Publication dateNovember 13, 2018
- Dimensions5.85 x 1 x 8.7 inches
- ISBN-100718039858
- ISBN-13978-0718039851
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Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of six New York Times bestsellers, including Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, and It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way. She writes from her family’s farm table and lives in North Carolina. Connect with her at www.LysaTerKeurst.com or on social media @LysaTerKeurst.
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- Publisher : Thomas Nelson (November 13, 2018)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 256 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0718039858
- ISBN-13 : 978-0718039851
- Item Weight : 1 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.85 x 1 x 8.7 inches
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Some of my favorite quotes are “Your whys have made you wise” and “To be human is to be vulnerable. It demands a trust in God that's no joke.
Trusting God is the hardest lesson to learn but the most crucial. We trust a God who allows hurt. But we also trust a God who uses hurt for good. Being hurt isn't the worst thing in the world. It's actually the very thing that makes us closer to Jesus and closer to our fellow humans. In a world of differences we are so very united when we simply cry together.”
There are so many more gems in this insightful and encouraging collection that you have to read to discover and be blessed by!
Thank you Lysa for not giving in to your pain but letting your God-gifted talent to express prose shine through and help countless people be reminded of truths that are often too difficult to see in the midst of life’s trials and tribulations.
Highly, HIGHLY recommend this amazing book!!
I really enjoyed reading and walking with God in each chapter diving in God's word which is food for our tired and weary souls at such a time of loss we are enduring. Life is precious from conception to natural death, what I've learned and hope to share with those around me is that God can take out disappointments and make us stronger in love and truth to help others know God more. I especially like the story titled "Upside down" in the last chapter, because that's so many of us but it takes courage to be humble and let our light shine for others. Be blessed and God loves you.
Lysa uses her own personal struggles and difficulties to navigate you through what to do and how to get over your personal struggles. I’m glad that she’s just not giving advice; she’s been through hard times herself so she can understand any pain the reader could be experiencing as they read the book. The biggest takeaway I got from the book was that even though you may be going through something, God remains consistent, and you can always go to Him for your help.
Here’s why I’m knocking off one star: I didn’t really absorb everything she was saying in the book. Perhaps that is my fault for reading the book too quickly and/or sporadically. I’ll definitely have to read it again, and perhaps with the accompanying workbook.
Lysa is an author that caters toward women. If you’re a man, don’t let that stop you from reading this book if you’re going through something you feel isn’t going the way you expected. Whenever you see the word “woman” used, just replace it with “man” to refer to yourself. And to the women reading this review, if you think your husband might benefit from this book, then by all means purchase it for him.
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Catch a couple teaching On YouTube if you are still not sure. I am working through several of her books and am finding them to be very helpful and sometimes painfully helpful!