You sometimes think you have outgrown a certain “phase” in your twin flame journey and then wake up the next day feeling as if you are backsliding. Even though you had achieved the inner peace state when you surrender. The next day feels like a relapse as if you had made two steps forward and then three steps backward. You feel like even though you did your best to embrace surrendering and healing, the rewards are few and less satisfying than the effort invested.

Sometimes it also feels like the rewards overall are spotty in the twin flame journey whenever you focus too much on the negative. All twin flames agree that after the healing phase — you have free will to choose how to proceed with living your life. You can choose to pursue a harmonious relationship with your twin flame or you choose to live a peaceful life of solitude as you pursue your life goals.

Once you reach that phase of constant inner peace, you realize that a reunion is not the epitome of happiness in the twin flame journey. Also, it is not imminent that you will heal at the same time as your twin flame. Some twin flames are not relationship material either — you choose to accept your connection and its sacredness and move on with your life in another direction in mutual understanding with your twin flame partner.

I hope my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed.

At first, you do. Your feelings oscillate between feelings of guilt and regret that you have no choice but to feel like a victim of your situation. Without a doubt, a twin flame is you in another form. You are each other. Twin Flames are also romantic and non-romantic. It is your Sacred Bond that drives the nature of your relationship. Because of your Sacred Bond, a twin flame instantly becomes your best friend. That one person who gets you. That one person who would do anything for your happiness to sustain even if it means denying you and letting you go — remember there is no separation between twin flames, they still love you from a distance.

The connection is always there staring right back at you. You can run and hide -- you cannot escape twin flame love. You are a twin Flame: You have always been. The only difference is that you are now Activated — you are Awake and Aware of what is happening to you. It is very excruciating when you don't have a chance for a relationship with your twin flame whether it is romantic or not. A physical separation feels like half of you has been kidnapped. You know they exist-- you don't know when they will be back. You wonder if it is all your fault everything is happening. You start chasing.

This book is useful to you if you feel triggered to chase a twin flame because:

• Fear of losing a twin flame
• Guilt and shame for not being good enough to keep them
• Insecurity and lack of enough Self-love
• Wounded inner child
• Core soundings and abandonment issues
• Feeling stagnated in your Surrendering phase

Surrendering to self-love is the greatest revolution indeed. It is also a personal journey you must take within yourself. It is also a self-discovery journey to reinvent yourself— to rediscover your authenticity.

Whenever you feel unworthy of unconditional love, you cannot share it with your twin flame or the entire human collective. Some people feel that healing is a destructive process. You have to break down and shed parts of yourself you deem unlovable. You into the depths of your Soul to confront your darkness. Each twin flame has a unique share of the twin flame journey. The Twin Flame journey sheds more light on the Twin Flame chaser’s emotional pain and chaotic experiences because it seems as if the chasing Twin Flame wears their heart on their sleeve. They express themselves and how they feel. A chasing twin flame is more comfortable finding more information about the experiences and becoming aware of the twin flame phenomenon.

The running twin flame also struggles more with this phase since you have no idea what is happening to you. You are naive about the twin flame experiences. It is also challenging for the twin flame runner to express themselves because of the dominant masculine energy — a running twin flame does not want to feel any feelings of vulnerability.

How is your chasing experience going for you? This book is your helpful guide to finding inner peace and balance. I wish you more blessings in your twin flame journey. Stay Blessed!

Attraction is an understatement. I haven’t yet found one word that explains the twin flame connection. It is not about physical attraction at all / it goes beyond that. It is a combination of Soul intimacy, Sacredness of your bond, and purity of the Soul. Your encounter is Cosmic and it transcends all the knowledge we know about relationships and connections.

Even though you are in a room full of people, looking into your twin flame’s eyes from across the table or from across the room automatically makes you understand how they feel. It is easy to anticipate a twin flame’s needs because you have a spiritual connection from your heart to theirs. Your twin flame is unconditionally available to you Soul to Soul.

If you haven’t experienced unconditional love before, and you are constantly resisting feeling the connection because it is quite uncomfortable to embrace. It is too good to be true. I grow all sorts of doubts to convince myself that how you feel is made up in your mind. You feel unworthy and undeserving of this potent pure connection that you never imagined yourself feeling.

A twin flame connection is unbelievably magical and you feel parts of yourself healing right away once you feel the energy merging. You feel energetically replenished. You find yourself happy for no reason. The connection opens you up to deeper parts of yourself that you never thought existed within. Feeling unconditional love within yourself not only heals you but it also heals others. You feel a rise in your empathy feelings. Your natural energy is rejuvenated and you feel an automatic boost in your vitality.

Here are more tales of chasing a running twin soul. Enjoy this simple book and stay blessed!

I eventually crawled through the painful stages. I grew the courage and inner strength to face my fears. I surrendered to what is — I let go of controlling the nature of my twin flame situation. I hugged my inner child. I struggled with healing because I did not know how to begin. I chased my twin flame thinking that he had solutions to my problems. I have learned that there are various challenging stages during the twin flame journey. Sometimes you let yourself feel the pain and go through it bravely with an open heart and total acceptance.

Sometimes you feel the pain that is not yours: you channel your twin flame's emotional chaos. You feel as if you are grieving your soul. Most times, it is a feeling of loneliness and emptiness. It lingers into your daily moods. Besides learning to understand what is going on, your life dramatically changes. So much chaos ensues; you have no idea what to do.
If you have chased a twin flame before, you know how confusing life can get when you have no one to talk to for advice.

This book is for every twin flame who seeks to find that place of constant inner bliss. It also will be your daily inspiration to manage the most challenging phases of healing. You will learn how to surrender to self-love. It will also equip you with the necessary tools to rediscover your authenticity. Most of all, by the end, you will know how to move on with a happy life while you embrace your shared twin flame energy. Once you learn the techniques of working with your newfound authentic self, you will find tips on how to work toward a harmonious union with your twin flame.

The healing phase is a blissful, calm, and simple stage of the twin flame journey. You look back on the chaotic changes like the previous chasing and running situation. You feel grateful for submitting to go through it all. Once you come out of all the stressful stages; the highs and lows, you can barely recognize the person you are. You go through alchemical transformations that change your life forever. Before a twin flame reenters your life, your newfound authenticity keeps perfecting yourself — you feel unhurried to go after your twin flame. You are beyond surrender because you are grounded in your natural energy. The healing phase also includes closing the last chapter of your old life while you prepare for the new one you plan to start with your twin flame.

I assure you that the separation phase eventually comes to an end. You are home to each other. Your Soul summons you back to the source; To your twin flame. I wish you blessings and more love on your twin flame journey. Stay Blessed!

If you are drowning in your sorrows while chasing a twin flame, calm down. I have been where you are. Everything is going as planned. Whatever seems to be going wrong might inadvertently work in your best interest. You cannot know and understand everything going on in your twin flame journey. Your mind cannot fathom what is happening; you can only trust the process. It sounds crazy but true — your overreaction to the situation might overwhelm your twin flame with more anxiety and stress that one of you might end up blocking the other. To your surprise, it might be you who might block your twin flame first. So, calm down!

Unfortunately, when they wrote to me, I messed up my chance to keep communicating with my twin flame. I was so overwhelmed and in disbelief that I automatically exploded my feelings to them in response to their text message. I made it a more uncomfortable situation. My twin flame blocked me after initiating contact with me. Our job as twin flames is to learn to uplift ourselves from the old to the new authentic versions without needing validation from each other. It means that Twin Flames must learn to share the connection without losing themselves in the connection. Therefore, instead of nervously waiting for them to return and fix you to be happier, trust how you feel the connection and let the situation be as you focus on redefining your life with the new Awakened Twin Flame Shared Energy to create a life of meaning and purpose in your way.

“When it comes to twin flames, What you seek is seeking you.”
“You are looking for what you already possess.”

Are you stuck in your twin flame dilemma? Here is your first step to getting yourself out of it.

I hope this helps. Stay Blessed!

Dear Chasing Twin Flame, this book is here to assist you with your growth to move forward on your Twin Flame journey. I respect that everyone’s journey is unique. Only the twin flame pair can understand the nature of their situation. The grieving phase was also part of my Spiritual Awakening process. When I survived the grieving process, I found enlightenment. I finally understood the meaning of my existence. I started living authentically in re-alignment with my rediscovered authentic self. Nowadays, I live a simple and happier life. I acknowledge and stay in the moment. I always seek inner peace and harmony. I truly understand the meaning of happiness. You realize you are the source of it all.

This book dissects the grieving process and provides the steps to overcome it. I first identify the source of grief and how to heal. Below is how it will flow:

What is Soul shock? What triggers it?
I could not believe what had just happened. I felt like someone had snapped me out of a deep beautiful dream. In one moment we were in awe of each other, in the next, I blocked him. He blocked me back — I felt frustrated by what was happening. I told him about my feelings for him. I decided to focus on my end of the connection.

Overcoming Depression — The Night of the Soul
After going through the soul shock phase. I went into a dark gray tunnel — it always felt like my heart was breaking open to let the light in. It is a spiritual journey I had to take within myself to open myself up to light and love. I stared into the scary darkest parts of my soul to confront my fears and insecurities. This process sheds light on my core wounding. There were parts of myself that I hid away from myself and the world because I thought were unlovable. I had accumulated a lot of past pain that I had not dealt with for decades. All the emotional dirt within came to the surface to be cleansed out of me.

Surrendering — Finding Inner Harmony & Balance
This phase was the most challenging of all. I could not go back to my old life. Neither did I know what was in stock for me. I had to close my eyes and trust that letting go would free me. I was exhausted from putting up an inner resistance to feeling the connection. I needed inner peace. I let the divine handle the whole situation. This initiated my healing phase of bringing unending inner peace into my life.

Rediscovering Bliss and Inner Harmony
This is the most wonderful phase of the twin flame journey. You have so many realizations. You are wiser, braver, and stronger than when you started your journey. You stand in your truth. You believe in your blessings.

By the end of this book, you will have figured out how to move on with your life without any validation from your twin flame. You figure out how to be happy during the separation phase. Even though your twin flame is the source of your joys, they are also your triggers to experience your darkest fears. Everything buried within — every darkest secret buried within you comes to the surface to be exposed to the Light of your twin flame awakening.

Your spiritual awakening process is a discarding journey to shed negative energy. To cleanse and purify your energy. This is one of the most excruciating experiences because the energy-purging process also involves the most trying Spiritual experience: The night of the Soul. It feels painful whenever you are challenged to unlearn your bad habits to learn healthy new ones. A twin flame irritates you because they are the source of the triggers of your pain. Even though you run from a twin flame, you still go through the frustrating growth process to transform into your authentic self. The further you run the more you are reminded of the sacredness of your bond.

I wish you blessings and love on your journey. Stay blessed!

We both came up with stupid childish fights to sabotage our friendship because the timing was not right.

“We accepted that it was best for everyone if we didn’t talk to each other.”

We have been through the highs and lows of the Twin Flame journey. We have broken each other’s hearts just to repair and heal each other through the connection.

A twin flame does not mean to hurt you. He or she does not orchestrate it. Whatever happens, just unfolds the way it does.

The more you hurt, the more you look for answers and solutions to your healing. You break apart just to rebuild yourself authentically.

Your twin flame never realizes how deeply they hurt you through their running actions so please be more forgiving than judging.

It is not until he or she returns after they have healed that you get closure of their suffering during the Awakening process.

If you are indeed twin flames, your journey should be healing for you both. You must be transforming and evolving into your authentic selves as your higher selves merge into a Harmonious Soul Union.

You must be able to feel yourself Spiritually progressing with your awakening process. You must feel your energy purifying itself within you with every positive step you take in your journey.

Stay in a high-energy vibration. Keep believing in your blessings. Acknowledge your little progress. Be grateful for this Spiritual Advancement experience. Enjoy your Spiritual Transcendence.

I hope this helps. Stay Blessed!

Inner work is a sacred spiritual persona journey that you take within yourself to integrate, heal, and re-organize yourself in alignment with your authenticity, Soul calling, and inner being.

Your inner being is naturally peaceful, in harmony, and grounded in your authenticity. This state of inner being is who you aspire to become after doing your inner work.

Authenticity is being in touch with your inner being and acting in alignment with your inner being harmonic vibration. It requires total awareness and mindfulness of the self. You must be able to objectively assess and analyze your energy vibrations, and emotional well-being, and control negative thinking patterns.

Anyone grounded in their authenticity freely and honestly expresses their feelings. If not, you suppress your trauma as a coping mechanism. This is one way of hurting the inner child. Childhood trauma is a compilation of many situations.

Suppression of gut feelings and blocking out your inner child is a coping mechanism when you no longer feel in touch with your authentic needs — when you no longer pay attention to your emotions and feelings. You are not aware of them. You will not express yourself. You also will not know what your emotional needs are.

I break down my healing journey into different processes:

• Self-love and self-rediscovery
• Spiritual Healing and Transcendence
• Hugging your inner child
• Healing accumulated past emotional pain
• Healing core wounding
• Breaking generational curses

I hope this book helps you. Stay Blessed!