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Everything You Ever Wanted to Know about Trans (But Were Afraid to Ask) Paperback – November 21, 2018

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Leading activist and essayist Brynn Tannehill tells you everything you ever wanted to know about transgender issues but were afraid to ask. The book aims to break down deeply held misconceptions about trans people across all aspects of life, from politics, law and culture, through to science, religion and mental health, to provide readers with a deeper understanding of what it means to be trans.

The book walks the reader through transgender issues, starting with "What does transgender mean?" before moving on to more complex topics including growing up trans, dating and sex, medical and mental health, and debates around gender and feminism. Brynn also challenges deliberately deceptive information about transgender people being put out into the public sphere. Transphobic myths are debunked and biased research, bad statistics and bad science are carefully and clearly refuted.

This important and engaging book enables any reader to become informed the most critical public conversations around transgender people, and become a better ally as a result.

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Equality and progress for our transgender neighbors and loved ones begins with overcoming misconceptions, misunderstandings, and ignorance about everything from health care to military service to the difference between sex and gender. With thorough research, extensive evidence, and personal experience, Brynn Tannehill guides readers through the complex challenges and the basic issues transgender people confront every day. -- Joseph Kennedy III, U.S. Representative for Massachusetts's 4th congressional district

This book is a must-have resource not just for transgender people but also for all of those who parent, educate, employ, serve, treat, love, and play, pray, work, or live with transgender youth and adults. It is beautifully written, painstakingly researched, sophisticated in its treatment of a wide range of topics, and destined to become a classic. Brava to Brynn! -- Anthony Varona, Professor of Law and Vice Dean at American University Washington College of Law

This is a multifaceted book that welcomes the reader to explore basic terminology and the daily challenges faced by transgender people in American society. Brynn presents a holistic and integrated view of the transgender experience by combining fact based, peer-reviewed evidence with a discussion of the complex issues, myths and misconceptions experienced by the transgender community today. Whether you are transgender, cisgender, an ally, or simply someone who wants to become more educated about gender identity, this one of a kind book is appealing to general audiences and academics alike. -- Dr. Michelle Dietert, Professor of Sociology, Texas A&M University

Brynn Tannehill is definitely
not afraid. In Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Trans (But Were Afraid To Ask), she bravely takes on the pernicious myths and outright lies about transgender people that otherwise circulate unchecked in American culture. With passion and humor, she intervenes in debates over science, religion, law, politics, and popular culture, bringing clarity to what can sometimes seem an unnavigable morass of unsubstantiated opinion. She also gives readers the tools they need to do their own myth-busting. This book is an essential introduction to transgender identities and politics for the uninitiated -- I can't wait to assign it in my "Introduction to Gender, Sexuality, and Women's Studies" class -- but it is also a great resource for transgender people and their friends and families. Tannehill does not shy away from warning us that the future could be bleak for trans folks in the United States. But she provides us with the truth and reminds us that with knowledge comes power. -- Jennifer Putzi, Associate Professor of English and Gender, Sexuality, & Women’s Studies, Director of Gender, Sexuality, & Women’s Studies Program, College of William and Mary

Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Trans (But Were Afraid to Ask) is a tremendously engaging and accessible resource that not only answers questions that people want to know, it informs about topics that we need to know. There is not another book on this topic that is as well-researched, comprehensive, clear, and vitally-needed.

If you want to educate yourself and others about trans people and issues that affect trans communities -- as well as stimulate lively conversation -- use this in your book club and in college classes. I challenge readers to ask a question that Brynn Tannehill has not answered - and answered exceedingly well.

-- Christine Robinson, Professor of Justice Studies, James Madison University

Based on decades of research and real world advocacy on behalf of transgender people, this gem of a book offers unvarnished, informed, and extremely accessible answers to just about every aspect of transgender life, law, and politics. Brynn has an impressive ability to explain complex legal issues in simple but accurate terms, and her deep knowledge of the military gives her an unparalleled insight into the transgender community's ongoing struggle to be able to serve openly in our nation's armed forces. -- Shannon Minter, Legal Director at the National Center for Lesbian Rights

Brynn Tannehill is the explainer-in-chief of the trans movement.
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know about Trans (But Were Afraid to Ask) is a one-stop shop for anyone with questions about this historic fight for equality. Informative and accessible, this resource is exactly what we need. -- Sarah McBride, National Press Secretary for the Human Rights Campaign

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A myth-busting 'trans 101' on hot button issues and debates relating to transgender people across all aspects of life

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Jessica Kingsley Publishers (November 21, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 432 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1785928260
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1785928260
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.15 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.98 x 1.08 x 9.02 inches
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THE most important written work about obstacles American Trans people face today.
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THE most important written work about obstacles American Trans people face today.
This is NOT a ‘how-to’ book, a salacious tell-all, a transition diary or a simple primer for those who want to scrape the surface of transgenderism. It IS, however, an extremely-well-researched, citation-laden selection of essays (in chapter form) distilling the political, legal and cultural issues with which transgender people in the U.S. deal every day. For those truly interested in the multiple minefields trans people must navigate simply to exist, this is THE definitive tome on the subject. Ms. Tannehill, a trans woman, retired naval aviator and military scholar, writes with authority, intelligence and clarity. Her prose is academic in style, chosen to communicate great quantities of factual information in the most-efficient possible fashion. That is not to suggest that the book is a difficult read; Ms. Tannehills prose style is at least the equal of her laser-like attention to detail. More specifically, I frequently found myself re-reading passages and pages to extract every nuance of insight this brilliant author has to share. Highly recommended!
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Reviewed in the United States on January 29, 2019
If I were coming out now as trans I'd buy at least a dozen copies to give to close family and friends (and to have if anyone at work wanted to borrow it) in order to give them a base for understanding who I am. If you know someone who is trans, or are even just wondering what is up with all of the news, proposed laws, and concerns in the general and LGBTQ community then this resource is essential. Not only is it written in an engaging and entertaining style, but it is deeply indexed and referenced (there are almost 1400 citations to back up virtually everything she says). While there is intelligence and passion in the writing, it is remarkably informational, even for someone who is already a part of the trans community.

When I started reading it I found that I was looking for scraps to paper to mark pages I wanted to go back to. By the time I'd gotten past the basics at the front of the book I'd dedicated post-it page markers to it. My copy is riddled with them,. Each chapter takes on a major aspect of understanding the trans experience, from medicine to law to politics to religion to the military, as well as just basic informational material for people who are coming into the conversation with no more than an understanding of trans through media representation. Media representation of trans people is a nightmare. There's a chapter describing that as well.

Ms. Tannehill has the precision of a military analyst, which she happens to be. She comes into this as someone who has done tours in active war zones as a Blackhawk pilot. She doesn't really talk about that because this book isn't at all an indulgent self-exploration (which would probably also be interesting). Instead this book is an extremely detailed briefing. She lets you know everything you need to know to fully understand an truly complex topic. She also has the fluid, clever, easy-to-read style of a seasoned writer who you'd expect to have seen in major publications like the New York Times (because she is a seasoned writer who has published there among her many other writing credits).

And now for a sentence that has never been written anywhere, by anyone, ever: "The chapter on Law was so riveting I couldn't put the book down." It was remarkable. It was the clearest, most succinct, most informative discussion of trans legal issues I have ever read, by far. It started with a detailed explanation of the workings of the U.S. court system and moved into levels of scrutiny, about which I was not nearly adequately well-informed, then to precedent that applies to the various circuits through the country down to specific case law. It also got into detailed descriptions of the issues before the court and the challenges trans people might face from SCOTUS, which could deeply change the legal landscape for trans people. The topic itself is a dry yet important one, but her explanation was both thoroughly engaging and remarkably insightful. It's worth buying the book for that chapter alone.

Conceptually, the idea of someone being a gender they weren't assigned at birth is so far removed from the lived experience of most people that it's tough to fully understand that as a reality. This book creates a vital link to doing that. I absolutely believe that it will become the definitive source for helping people understand both the perspective of the transgender community and the challenges they face. It's also an important source for people who find themselves in the grey area around considering transition and not really knowing quite as much about this as they might need to. There aren't a lot of truly objective, detailed informational sources. This is easily the best I've ever seen.

The book is exceptional. Anyone who knows or works with people in the trans community will learn something and find useful information throughout. If you've read this far into a review about it then clearly you have enough of an interest that you'd really benefit from reading it. Buy it. Seriously.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 27, 2020
"Everything You Ever Wanted to Know about Trans (But Were Afraid to Ask)" fully lives up to its name. This is my new go-to book when I need to give someone a reference to learn about trans people.

Ms Tannehill has written the most readable and informative book on trans people. She writes in a clear, direct, friendly style with vivid analogies and vignettes that is both a pleasure to read and helps you remember the important points.

Ms Tannehill is former Naval Aviator, intelligence analyst, and current defence analyst. This shows in her meticulously research and her careful analysis of the wealth of research. In this contentious area, proponents on all sides of the issue have a tendency to misstate research or ignore inconvenient research. Ms Tannehill discusses precisely what the research shows (and doesn't show). If you want further information (or to check her analysis), she has a wealth of cites.

This book is different from most books on this issue as it discusses the good, the not-so-good, and the bad outcomes of being trans. Too many books, on all sides of the issue, are written as one-sided propaganda pieces. Trans people are not the "Spawn of the Devil" but their lives are not all sweetness and light once they transition either. The truth, as in all things, is somewhere in the middle.

Highest recommendation.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 30, 2018
When our then-17yo child came out as transgender two years ago, we had only our collective misinformation to guide us. We didn't know where to look for information -- and frankly, we didn't know that what we "knew" was wrong, so we didn't even know what questions to ask or whom to ask them to. Over the ensuing months, we were able to find professionals who taught us about the science behind being transgender, but we'd have avoided a lot of anguish if we'd had this book to read and reference right away. Those were long months of confusion and pain. Facts and knowledge were the solution for us.

This book is well-researched and well-written, with pages of end notes corroborating the information it presents. It's also well-organized, so you can return to it as a reference. And despite all we've learned over the past two years, this book taught me so much more.

I've already bought two more copies of this book for friends and family, and hope to find many more people to buy copies for. Page 305 of this book says. "The fiercest transgender allies in America are the parents of transgender children." Guilty. Our transgender child is flourishing post-transition, and we will continue to advocate for him and for the rest of the transgender community as best we can! This book will prove invaluable in our efforts.
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Santiago Acevedo Chavez
5.0 out of 5 stars Un libro muy completo
Reviewed in Mexico on April 27, 2023
El libro cubre todo lo esencial que debemos saber para comprender a las personas trans, lo único es que está dirigido más hacia la población de USA, aún así tiene muchos temas en común.
Sarah H
5.0 out of 5 stars Every person should read this.
Reviewed in Canada on May 2, 2022
I bought this book as a resource for extended family who didn’t have a great understanding of what Trans meant when our daughter transitioned.
It’s factual, and research based, and I think a very honest representation of being Trans in North America.
It might not be an easy read for some- it’s very honest in the discrimination and oppression Trans people are faced with, but if you read it with an open mind, and willingness to learn, it’s an incredibly valuable resource.
After dog-earring my own copy, I will be purchasing several more to share with our community.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Eines der besten Bücher zum Thema
Reviewed in Germany on March 24, 2021
Anders als das sonderbare Design des Titelblatts vermuten ließe, handelt es sich hier um einen herausragenden Beitrag zum Thema. Nach zwei einleitenden Kapiteln werden alle wichtigen, im gegenwärtigen Amerika heftig umstrittenen Themen (darunter Medizin, Religion, Militärdienst u.v.a.m.) behandelt. Die Verfasserin argumentiert sehr sachlich und dennoch verständlich aus der Perspektive einer Transfrau. Alle Behauptungen sind (in den Endnoten) mit Verweisen auf die aktuelle Fachliteratur untermauert. Alle, die sich mit dem Thema ernsthaft auseinandersetzen wollen, können ohne Sorge mit diesem Buch anfangen.
Lisa Mullin Melbourne Australia
5.0 out of 5 stars Superb, A Must Read
Reviewed in Australia on November 27, 2018
If you are a transgender person, a parent of one, a friend, a relative. An academic, a journalist who is studying or commenting on transgender people and issues. Or just someone who is curious.

This is the book for you, by one of the world's leading transgender activists and writers.

Written in a clear, lucid manner it answers all the questions authoritatively.

Who are transgender people, what does the science say, what are all the political and legal issues that impact them. Where are all those anti-transgender people coming from, what are they claiming ..and why.
What are all the myths and misconceptions ..and why they are wrong.

Of special note to the activist/journalist/academic it has an encyclopedic list of references (all 1,388 of them).

There are 12 Chapters, each covering a different aspect of transgender people, their lives and the politics and debates that impact them.
Ch 1: Trans 101
Ch 2: Trans 201
Ch 3: Dating and Sex
Ch 4: Medicine/Mental Health
Ch 5: (Bad) Science
Ch 6: Law (US)
Ch 7: Politics
Ch 8: Religion
Ch 9: Military
Ch 10: Media and Popular Culture
Ch 11: Gender/Feminism
Ch 12: Where We Go from Here

As an activist myself, the references are to die for. Comprehensive, encyclopedic in fact, the culmination of years and years of hard work by Brynn. Just having those at my fingertips is worth the price of the book alone.

Buy and pass onto friends and family, trans support groups, LGBI allies, media, politicians ..in fact anyone in and around the transgender community.
Hannah Kruse
5.0 out of 5 stars Must-read, excellent and probably best book on the topic ever.
Reviewed in Germany on November 27, 2018
The book is one of the best regarding this very topic. It not only provides information in abundance but in an easy-to-read way. It's almost endless annex of citations and sources beats witness to the meticulous and dedicated work of the author and provides evidence and foundation to her statements. The book also addresses the endless tirade of false claims and bad "science" that are used by anti-trans forces and profoundly debunks them.
A must-read that any library ought to have.